By dressing rough or unkept (like wearing "crazy jeans") you made mad people your role model. Dress the way you want to be addressed.
Parents that allows or encourage their children to dress ungodly doesn't regard God highly. (It shows that you would rather offend God than discipline your children).
It's a destructive mentality for an husband to support public indecent dressing, for their wife to look sexy. Your wife is private, not for sale, shouldn't be displayed cheaply, advertising herself to invitations.
“If you are a child of the King of Kings, you should dress as such.”
Memorise: In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearl, or costly array; -1 Timothy 2:9